It wasn’t that long ago that I firmly believed in the old saying “Nice Guys finish last” mostly because, on the off chance that I actually managed to TALK to a girl that I was interested in I would invariably fall into the dreaded “friend zone”.
Constantly hearing “you’ll make a great boyfriend for someone” and “why can’t more guys be like you” was great until I realized I was hearing it all the time and never actually dating any of the girls who told me that!
I realized that I was too shy to talk to girls in a way that made them interested in me as anything more than a friend. Well after several years of trying to figure out the mysteries of women (don’t bother, no one will ever be able to do that) I started coming across all sorts of information about picking up women, by “pickup artists”. Thats all well and good for guys looking for a one night stand, but what about guys who are nice and want to STAY nice?
Now fast forward a little bit: Lately my friends are all coming to me for relationship advice and dating advice! I started thinking that perhaps I ought to put what I’ve learned in writing so that nice guys can share the feeling of being in a great relationship.
So now I’m working on a book to help nice guys get the girl without having to compromise who they are. In the mean time I decided to put up this website and share some of the info that will be in the book and perhaps start chatting with people who are looking for advice on how to start dating.
Feel free to poke around and even join the newsletter, I’ll send out updates both on the book and when new articles are put up on the site!
